BRIDAL Shower Time.

So on Wednesday, May 7th - my cute friends threw a bridal shower for me. I was a little stressed about it being right before the wedding, but I honestly just couldn't wait to see all of my friends! When I arrived with my sister, it was decorated so incredibly cute! 

All of my fun friends were sitting at a table with scrapbook paper and pictures of Bryan and I. They had yummy food and a chocolate fountain. But most importantly, my closest friends were there. We scrapbooked for the first part of the evening and the pages turned out so cute! The activity was all because of Merrill. She ordered it online, and got all the supplies that made it so fun! She's such a darling and thoughtful friend. 

I had seen this Bryan's mission picture on one of the walls and thought it was random and funny, but then my friends announce that we are going to play "pin the mustache on Bryan"... how funny is that?! We all got a turn, and none of us got even close... haha

Gotta love how cute Merril and Heater are while the spun me around. I'm so grateful for these two girls in my life. I'm so blessed! 

Heather made darling party favors, and we played a game her and Merrill had made previously that is this "Guess the Famous couple" game. I like it a lot!

We later opened gifts, and it still amazes me how kind and giving all of my friends have been. They are so thoughtful! Spending that night with them really made me so happy, and it calmed me down a bit before the big day came. It was so nice to just chill, laugh and talk. Thanks to my friend Rachel Farner we have pictures of the event! :)

Here's to this cute best friend of mine who put on the party on her house! I love miss Merrill Face so very much. She is always there for me, to listen to me vent, cry or listen to me tell all of my stories! I honestly don't know what I would do without her. The last four years have had some crazy ups and crazy downs, and she has always been the kindest. I'm so glad that her family let's me be apart of their family too. The Merrill's are amazing :) 

Him & I

Well, I have to say I am pretty blessed! How cute is this boy? Bryan O'Dell I love you more than you know! Waiting for you and writing you every week of your mission was so incredibly worth it. You make me want to be a better person, you make me happier than I could ever imagine. I am excited to start forever even though I know that it will be tough at times. I know all the good is far better. Thank you for loving me even though I can be so stubborn, impatient  and insane :) I'm a lucky girl, and I am so happy we are starting our life together. I love you forever favorite. 

Bridal Shower # 2

My second bridal shower was planned for this day. I was excited, and a bit nervous because I still am surprised that anyone would show up to celebrate me and even more surprised that they would bring gifts! Ha.

Well, I arrived at the shower to find that there were so many people I loved  there who have been there for me throughout my life thus far. Even my babysitter (Amber) from growing up was there. How sweet is that?! She is darling, and has like 3 of her own kids!

My Grandma Sherry and Aunt Kim flew out that morning just for the shower! Seriously! They couldn't be any cuter. I love them so much!! Seeing them made me very happy and I still cannot get over the fact that they flew here and back that day just for me.

My aunts were all there except for Brenda since she lives in Georgia, but she is even coming out to the wedding! Young Women leaders were there, my friend Jaylin from all my college classes was there, and Janet and Erika came as well! I really enjoyed talking to so many people and getting to catch up with them.

My mom decorated the place so beautifully and had made some cute decorations and food. They reminded me how blessed I am.

I did get some pretty awesome gifts too!!! A kitchen Aid, dishes that are gorgeous, a blender, a rice cooker, silverware,  table linens, tools, sheets and more! I'm glad people are so kind to couples who are just starting out! There is no way we would be able to get all of those things on our own.

The rest of the day was filled with me running around to get a few projects done. Later that night I met Bryan at IHop for dinner. That boy has been working like crazy during finals and still taking his own. I was really happy that we did get to go to dinner together and spend a bit of time even though it wasn't a lot. I feel bad because sometimes I complain and stress, but he really does always make sure he spends time with me. He is kind of great, and I am excited to marry him!

Bridal Shower Fun

So. One of the many adventures that comes with getting engaged, are Bridal Showers. I've been to many, I've seen all the girls, and the embarrassing gifts -I've just never been on the receiving end!


My cute friend Kelsie Cook Yeoman decided to plan a fun bridal shower with all of our friends from our previous singles ward, as well as any other random friends I wanted to invite. I'm not going to lie, I was nervous about people actually showing up for me. I know I have many friends, and I love them. I guess I just didn't picture a bunch of girls taking a night away from their lives to come be with me and celebrate Bryan and I. Well, I shouldn't have been nervous!

I arrived at the party and all down the street were cars parked for the shower! I walked in and saw some of my very favorite faces. The place was decorated and cute, the food was darling and everyone was SO sweet. All of the people that were there have been there for me for the last few years, and I'm so grateful Heavenly Father placed them in my life because I know they will be lifelong friends. The list of people whom were in attendance was McCal Takos, Kelsie Yeoman, Katie Berry Tall, Kayla Jacobsen, Lacey Edwards, Angela Thomas, Cassie Marshall, Linsey Pickup, Jessica Atkinson Campbell, Callie Varner, Breana Linton, Meagan Reginio, Sister Diane Bartlome, Sister Debbie Kakola and  Sister Janel Frost! How amazing are they?!?! Seriously, all of them are dolls.

Kelsie had set up this milk and cookie bar with darling glass milk jars, platters with cookies, pictures of Bryan and I, balloons ah. SO cute. She also had everyone write little "love notes" for Bryan and I and hung them with clothes line pins over the gifts. Kayla talked to Bryan and asked him a series of questions for me to answer and if I was wrong on any I had to stick a big fat piece of bubble gum in my mouth. I think I did pretty well at that game! My favorite was her question of "When did Bryan know he loved you?"... I just sat there. I had NO idea. I know WHEN he told me he loved me, but I didn't know when he actually knew. His response was "When she made me a better missionary". I'm not gonna lie, I was getting some happy tears there.

Now, the gifts. Holy cow. I've never seen so many weird games and lubricants. ha. They made me all nervous for this marriage thing. But! I did get some beautiful lingerie and some fun home essentials and gift cards! Those girls are just so sweet!

I seriously needed a night like that. I night to catch up with some amazing, amazing girls. I felt loved, and just so happy. They are just showing me how truly blessed I am. Heavenly Father really does know us. He knows who to place in our lives. He knows what we need, and WHO we need to helps us get what we need. I couldn't have asked for a better evening and shower! I wish I had gotten a picture with all of my girls. Instead, I'm just going to post some of my favs from the years I have spent with them.

Engagement Love

Our Favorite. Ps. He's my Favorite.

For those of you who know me, you know that I have a serious obsession with pictures and documenting everything, and I mean everything! Engagement pictures have been something I have looked forward to for years. I had this image in my head that I would look perfect, he would look perfect, the location would be perfect and our outfits would be perfect. That isn't too much to ask for is it...?

Because I had these expectations in my head, the day we had scheduled for our engagement pictures was drawing nearer and nearer and I had NOTHING. I could not think of one outfit that I already owned that I could live with. I decided it was time to shop. The week before I began my search.

Wednesday - no success.
Thursday - even worse.
Friday - painfully worse. I cried.

And...... the next few days were the same. I would walk into a store already knowing they would not have what my little girl heart had imagined. Way to go Chels - setting yourself up for failure! Thankfully I have the most amazing Fiance who let me cry it out, and continued to tell me that no matter what we were wearing, they would be great because we would be in them together.

Classic Utah County BYU Couple pose.

I began to be stressed about the location as well. I had pushed our pictures out to March thinking that the snow would be gone, and We could take pictures up American Fork Canyon at Tibble Fork  Resevoir. Well guess what? There was still snow. Obviously I cried again and made it into a bigger deal than I needed to. Bryan again, was a sweetheart. He spent 4 hours on the Saturday before our scheduled appt (March 15th) driving ALL over the Utah County with me trying to find a place that would live up to my expectations. How does this boy put up with me? He is seriously amazing. I feel bad for being so dramatic about the whole thing, but I just love that he is willing to do whatever he can to make me happy even when my expectations are impossible.

I had many friends over the course of that week who spent hours with me at many different malls and in countless dressing rooms. Heather, Merrill, Kylie and Kate - I have no idea what I would do without you girls. You listen to my nonesense, you waste time you could use otherwise to help me out, you make me laugh and you help me feel beautiful. Thank you :)

The Thursday before I went to get my hair cut. Well, not MY hair, my hair extensions. Gentry Campbell Hone did an amazing job. She worked for 2 hours to make sure that I understood how to put the extensions in myself and to cut and blend the hair so that it looked SO incredibly natural. I love them :) That night Bryan and I drove up to the Outlet mall to buy him some clothes for engagements. We found him an attractive button up and a pair of nice slacks that would work well with my formal outfit. After that we ran to  South Jordan for me to finish up some of my shopping and then we went home!

Mmmmmmmm Pie. 3.14

Friday, I was able to work all day and then that night Bryan and I hung out, registered at Target!! Once we finished registering we went to Village Inn with Kyle, Mark, Shaylea and Colton for 3.14 (Pie day). Afterwards Bryan and I watched Once Upon a time while I painted my nails and toe nails. We even plucked his eye brows! ha.

Saturday rolled around and I was so tired. I had spent the night before washing and ironing and laying out clothing for the both of us until 3am. Around 11am I got myself ready and out of the apartment to attend Maegan Reginio's bridal shower. The shower was small, but very fun! I then left to go to Sephora to get myself some new make up and a make over lesson. The girl was so kind and helpful. She got my everything I needed to feel beautiful. I received a  text message from my photographer Aimee Crandall saying that she thought it would be best to reschedule because the wind was out of control. A good 20mph...... Needless  to say, engagement pictures were rescheduled.

Happy 1 Year HOME

That night, ended up being really good for me. Bryan picked me up  and we went to Dinner at Applebees. It was nice to be out of my apartment, away from work, and not worrying about finding outfits anymore. Bryan was sweet and it was just wonderful to sit with him. It was fun sitting there and realizing that we are really getting married, we are really getting sealed for time and all eternity. Who knows what I would do without that boy. I sure don't. We finished off the night by doing the rest of our registering at Bed Bath and Beyond.

Wednesday rolled around it was time for our postponed session for Engagements. The day was a bit stresseful, but everything came together! Our photographer asked to move it from 4:30 to 5pm to begin and that made a world of a difference because we were able to get the last things we needed and still make it on time! What a blessing.

As  we began driving up American Fork Canyon I realized what a blessing it was that our pictures had been postponed. Much of the snow had melted, there was hardly any wind and it was a gorgeous day. My skin was clear, and Bryan told me I was beautiful. Aimee stepped out of her car and she was just the most darling thing the whole time! She made us feel so comfortable, she let us have fun and I actually did feel beautiful. We laughed lots, we kissed and played around. I have to say, Bryan O'dell is the man for me!

Sorry future children, Mommy and Daddy like to kiss :)

Once we finished, Bryan heated up the car to get my cold little hands and feet to a normal temperature. We drove down the canyon and into Lehi for Rib City. After all, it was March 19th, 2014. My sweet boy has been home from his mission for 1 year! I'm so excited, for all the years to come. It amazes me how fast time flies! Bryan reminded me how I was freaking out this time of year last year. I can't believe how everything worked and is working out. For 2 years I dreamed that my sweet amazing best friend would come home to me and that we would magically feel the same about each other and live happily ever after! I'm so grateful that Heavenly Father placed this man in my life. I'm grateful that he is my very best friend and that he makes me WANT to be better. He will be my favorite forever.

Now that we are at the end of my rant, I have to say that I am incredibly blessed. Everything turned out as perfectly as I had imagined, actually better. I love that you can see how happy we are in these pictures. I love that you can see how much we love each other. I love that he towers over me. I love that he is adorable. Most of all, I love that he is mine. Our sweet photographer posted some sneak peak photos that evening, ENJOY :)

So happy, so in love.

My life is PERFECT. HE IS PERFECT :)

Randomness

Sunday - Today was a really really good day! I woke up and was late for church.. but I got to talk with Staci outside while we ate breakfast. She is such a sweetheart. I love that she is so interested in my life, and so understanding. She really is one of my best friends. I missed sacrament because I woke up late... but the rest of church was fantastic! In sunday school we talked about doing work for our dead. The lesson was titled "The Prisoners Shall Go Free." I just think it's so interesting how the hearts of the children shall turn to their fathers, and the hearts of the fathers will turn to their children. I remember singing primary songs about that, but I never understood it until the last couple of years. It is honestly so amazing how it all works. I thought it was interesting that this was one of the first things that was revealed to Joseph Smith - before the priesthood and before baptism.

Will you be my Forever?

              

HELLO!  Look at this BEAUTY 

          Well, it has been awhile since I've written, and this blog is missing a very important life event.

On Friday December 6th, Bryan and I had planned on going to see Catching Fire with our friends. He called me while i was still at work to let me know what the plan for our evening was. While on the phone he asked "What day do you finish your finals?" I said "Well, most likely the Wednesday or Thursday of Finals week". He then asked when I would go home for the break, and I asked when he would go. He said, "Oh I'm going home Friday night because I have to work that day", so I just told him I would be going home whenever he did! He ended up asking "Well would you like to go on a date with me that night to celebrate making it through finals week?" Now, I'm feeling a little surprised/confused because he has hardly ever asked me on a date in advance.. he then proceeded to say "And we could go to dinner at like Braza Grill or something, does that sound fun?". After that I was sitting there a little shocked. I obviously said yes, but called Brooke the minute I got off of the phone with Bryan. I told her all about how I was so nervous he was going to ask me to marry him, but I didn't wanna get my hopes up! Needless to say, the next two weeks I was incredibly anxious.

Friday, December 20th 2014

Wednesday night I went shopping with my sister. I had been so nervous and unsure of if Bryan would propose to me on Friday night. I wanted it oh so bad, so I finally just gave in and bought a whole new outfit. Thursday I was at Katie Holmes (Murdock)'s wedding and I just missed Bryan so much!  That night I called him and told him I really wanted him to come over. I had hardly seen him that whole week because between his finals, my finals, his studying schedule and his work schedule - it was impossible. He told me he had too much he had to do and I told him he was "the worst boyfriend ever" (obviously I was kidding if you had heard my sarcasm).  He didn't come, so I decided that I should paint my nails just in case as well. That day I went to work all dressed up in my new outfit, and really hoping I wasn't getting my hopes up. I just kept reminding myself that I hadn't seen Bryan much that week, and I should be happy because we were going to go on a a nice date!!

Bryan called me after he finished work, and we were both talking while he was driving to South Jordan and I was driving back to Orem to grab a few more things that I needed for the long break. We talked for a long time, and he seemed all nervous because he thought I wasn't going to make it back on time for our reservation. I got back to my moms house on two minutes after he go there to pick me up :) I'm a pro. SO off to dinner we went. I was still trying to calm myself down in my head, and he asked if I would tell him what his Christmas present was, of course I wouldn't tell him. He was going to get it after we got done with dinner! We arrived at Braza Grill and sat at our table. Oh you should have seen how excited that boy was when he saw all the meat coming around! Like a boy in a candy store. Dinner was really great! And I was super happy to just be with him, but then he was texting his dad! I asked him why he was texting him and he said "I love my daddy" I was like "really? We are on a date, what are you even talking about"?....."Sports"... "Well that's important!!" ha. Best conversation ever. He eventually quit texting his dad and everything was still fantastic. I was SO full. I still haven't admitted to him that Ron randomly decided to take us to Rodizio Grill that afternoon for lunch.... Dinner was much better with Bryan though! :)

So we finished eating and began to walk out to his car. By this point I'm hoping he's going to take me somewhere since he hadn't proposed during dinner. I asked where we were going and he said "to my house, to open Christmas presents"............ yup, not happening. He then said "I get dibs on opening mine first!!!".... "Wow mr impatient" I said.... Aren't I so kind? So I'm sitting there trying to pep talk myself in my head and I realize his hands are FRIGID. I teased him about it because his job is to keep my hands warm, not the other way around! Janet called and "asked" Bryan if we wanted to watch a christmas movie with them when we got back, and he told her no because we were going to open our christmas presents to each other. Don't get me wrong, I was excited to go to his house but I kind of assumed that they would be watching their movie downstairs which is where he said we'd be opening presents so to me that was another confirmation that a proposal was not coming. I knew he wanted it to be a private thing.

Well! We arrived at the Frandsen household and the first thing I see is his family chillin up in the family room watching a movie. They never watch upstairs! We then went to the basement. As we were walking down the step, Rick was coming up as well with a HUGE smile on his face. We continued to the basement and I sat on the couch near the tree. Bryan asked me to scoot over more, so I did. I gave him his present and he opened it. I had given him two BYU hats that were throwback colored hats. He seemed to really like them! Well, he got up, walked to the tree and grabbed my present. A thin rectangular box.... the first thought I had was "candy box"???? I began to open and he stopped me to tell me that he needed to explain a little bit. He reminded me of how I had told him a few times that obviously having him home is better, but sometimes I really missed getting letters from him. So I continued to open the box and there was a stack of envelopes numbered off in order. I took the first one out, it said "August 2009 - We Met" There was this upset emoticon face and I just laughed a bit when I realized he put there face there because we did not really like each other when we first met. The envelopes each had a date and a picture of some important milestone we had reached throughout our relationship: first date, first handhold, first kiss, The night I knew I loved him, his mission, coming home, becoming his girlfriend, until the very last one.... "December 20th, 2014".... no picture. At this point I like know what is going to happen, but it honestly had not completely connected that he was really about to ask me to marry him!

Bryan stood up, and asked me to stand up too. I just kept asking "why"? ha. Duh Chelsea. Way to be blonde here. So, Bryan pulled me up and reached around the tree, and grabbed a box. I kept asking "what are you doing?!" and he got down and one knee and asked me...."Chels, will you marry me"? I freaked and couldn't believe that the ring in the box was the ring I had wanted SO badly. It was BEAUTIFUL!!!! He then said "Chels, you still need to answer.." so then i said "YES!!!". Colton had popped out of nowhere and was taking pictures. Holy brain overload. Bryan, asked me to marry him, he had the ring, AND he had someone taking pictures. I couldn't believe how perfect it was, and then Colton points down at a video camera! The WHOLE thing was recorded. So perfect. I love this man. I really do.

Colton left us alone for a minute and i just could NOT believe what had just taken place. Bryan.. me.. proposal... marriage...together... forever... AH! :) Obviously we had a few people upstairs waiting for us, and so Bryan said it was time to go up. We go on up and Rick says "Sooo..." and I say "I feel silly!" I feel silly? Who am I! But oh, Rick just gave me the longest hug and I just about cried. It was all starting to feel real. Janet hugged me, Erica and Sam hugged me, and Erica said "I'm getting a sister!!" They pulled out Martinellis and gave us a sweet little toast. The rest of the night was a blur. But we visited my family to tell my mom! And then we announced to the world that Bryan and I were going to seal the deal!  So here is the Facebook relationship status I have been looking forward to for so long!!

May 9th 2014 here we come!!!!

Mr. Bryan and Chelsea Frandsen